How to Save Your Own Life is a divorce story, which is the flip side of a love story.
Isadora Wing, neé Isadora White, tells the story.
Isadora wrote the best-selling novel Candida Confesses, which her fans say is not only Isadora’s personal story but theirs as well.
Isadora, 32, has been married for eight years to Bennett Wing, a psychiatrist who sees his analyst and advises Isadora to talk to her analyst.
Bennett and Isadora never talk. They occasionally exchange information and have sex together even when they aren’t talking at all.
Isadora has had affairs, but when she learns Bennett has had affairs that all their friends knew about— and assumed she knew about—she begins to divorce Bennett emotionally, intellectually, sexually.
Her marriage to Bennett makes her distrust the possibility of a happy marriage.
Erica Jong makes Isadora’s tale feel absolutely true.
That’s her novel’s greatest strength and its greatest weakness.
Although Isadora clothes her observations in quotable witticisms, so many people have had experiences like Isadora’s that there doesn’t seem to be anything new in Jong’s retelling of it.
The love poems that compose the final chapter, however, reveal the uniqueness of Isadora’s experience.
They’re worth the price of the book.
How to Save Your Own Life:
a novel by Erica Jong
Holt, Rinehart and Winston, ©1977. 310 p.
1977 bestseller #8. My grade: B
© 2018 Linda Gorton Aragoni